Jesus
asked, "Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?" Then he
pointed to his disciples and said, "Look, these are my mother and
brothers. Anyone who does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother
and sister and mother!"
-- Matthew
12:48-50
Maybe for you it's Easter, Christmas or some other time when your
family gets together. In any event, the National Communications Association
says that the holidays can be either a time of joy and togetherness--or an
occasion for stress, conflict and family tension. What's more, stress expert
Elizabeth Scott observes that
"many a happy holiday has been found by groups of people who have decided
to celebrate with friends instead of family."
It's a sad but accurate commentary about what's happening in 21st Century America. But
in many ways, it's simply a reflection of human nature. Whenever
families gather--for just about any reason at all--tensions can peak. Sometimes
it's because of intrusions into precious personal space, like when the in-laws
spend the night (or week) in a house that's already too close for comfort.
There's also that outcast teenager who perceives their older relatives as
judgmental, critical or demanding. And let's not forget those pleasant
conversations over Christmas dinner about relationships, politics and religion.
Does this hit close to home? If so, you're in good company. Jesus
himself--the Son of God--was often misunderstood by those closest to him.
"A prophet is honored everywhere except in his own hometown
and among his relatives and his own family," the Savior
once told his disciples.
Since even our own families can misinterpret our actions, have you
ever wondered if God really understands all the mundane problems,
annoyances and trials that we face every day? Luke's Gospel
tells us that Jesus came into this world in the poorest of circumstances: with
a manger--an animal's feeding trough--as His first bed. But why? As the King's
son, Jesus could have lived in a marble palace while enjoying only the finest
things in life. And God could have commanded everyone on earth to worship and
obey him.
But something would have been missing. As a loving Father, our God
refuses to force anyone to accept his free gift of forgiveness and salvation.
And since he knew that men and women were without hope because of the pitiful
ways they lived their lives, God decided to come to us himself in human form to
live the perfect life. That meant living among us through the sin-free Jesus
Christ: the only acceptable
sacrifice to pay for our offenses.
Jesus--the Son of God--was born into poverty. And throughout his
ministry, the religious elite despised and cursed him. They didn't recognize
him or hear his voice. And even Jesus' own family sometimes thought he was
crazy. Eventually, the innocent Christ would die for all of us in a most
painful and humiliating way: crucifixion with two common criminals.
But that's the way it had to be. And because Jesus fulfilled the
mission God had planned for him since the foundation of the world, the circle
was complete and our sin-debt paid in full. He came to earth to be with
his creation and suffer both among us and for us. God not only lived out the
human experience, he came to
understand both you and me.