You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God.
– James 4:2
Millions of Americans invest in their health by working out at the gym, eating organic food, and avoiding excess sugar and fat. Nevertheless, our nation has a heart condition. According to current data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, heart disease is the leading cause of death in the United States, now claiming over 680,000 lives each year. That’s more than cancer.
But heart disease is more than a physical infirmity — it’s also a debilitating and deadly spiritual condition. One variant is jealousy, and the Bible records several well-known cases. The first occurs within the opening chapters of Genesis between brothers Cain and Abel, the sons of Adam and Eve. Cain was jealous that God preferred Abel’s offering over his own. And unable to control his bitterness and envy, he killed Abel, and then tried to mislead God about his crime. When his Creator asked about Abel’s whereabouts, the murderer responded, “Am I my brother’s keeper?”
It’s later in Genesis that we find another instance of jealousy and deception. This time it involves Joseph, the son of Jacob — the patriarch of the nation of Israel. Jacob doted on Joseph, and the boy’s older brothers resented it. Joseph also didn’t win their affection by telling them about his symbolic dreams, which suggested that they would one day bow down to him. What’s more, Jacob had presented Joseph with a special coat of many colors, which signified his son's prominence in his heart. So, one day when Joseph had ventured into the fields, his brothers spied him from afar and conspired to kill him. But after a change of heart, they opted to sell him into slavery.
The brothers’ horrendous deed led to years of heartbreak and struggle for Joseph and Jacob alike. But God used the siblings' jealousy as a vehicle for good, and Joseph was blessed and protected while in captivity. Joseph also gained favor in the eyes of Egypt’s pharaoh — so much so that he eventually became the second-most powerful man in that nation. When a famine spread across the region, he even used his God-given wisdom to rescue millions of people from starvation — including his brothers and father. And yes, the brothers DID eventually bow down to Joseph, just as his dreams had predicted.
“You meant to do me harm, but God meant it for good,” Joseph explained, “so that it would come about as it is today, with many people’s lives being saved.”
Are you the jealous type? Rather than envying someone else’s accomplishments, possessions, or good fortune, the cure for jealousy — the so-called Green-Eyed Monster — is to adopt an attitude of gratitude for our own many blessings. With that in mind, let’s take the apostle Paul’s words from Romans 8:28 to heart:
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose".
