But I
tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to
judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, 'Raca' is answerable
to the court. And anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of
hell.
-- Matthew
5:22
Comedian George Carlin once observed that an "idiot" is
anyone on the highway who's driving slower than you. A "maniac," on
the other hand, is anyone who passes you in traffic.
Although Carlin's commentary was definitely tongue-in-cheek, many
people actually act out these same perceptions through road rage. The National
Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) defines road rage as an assault with a motor vehicle or
other dangerous weapon by the operator or passenger(s) of another motor
vehicle, or an assault precipitated by an incident that occurred on a roadway.
Road rage experts say the most obvious form of this criminal offense is
aggressive and excessive speeding--particularly on congested highways or in bad
weather. Causes include increased congestion on the roadways, running late (too
many obligations), increased levels of intra- and interpersonal stress, plus
the need to "save face" and overcome feelings of being disrespected
by another driver. Most telling, however, is that the NHTSA also
identifies chronic or pathological anger as a leading cause of this
disturbing phenomenon.
Maybe that's not too surprising. After all, anger is one of
mankind's earliest and strongest emotions. And it revealed itself within the
first few chapters of the Bible in the form of the world's first murder.
We couldn't control our anger back then in quiet, agrarian
settings and we still can't today on our traffic-snarled highways. But
Christ-followers are held to much higher standards. In fact, gentleness is one
flavor of the Fruit of the Spirit that proves God is living through us. With
this in mind, note that gentleness isn't another word for wimpiness. Jesus was
gentle--but He was hardly a wimp. Instead, biblical gentleness is the
transformation of our innate anger into the power to do God's will in the
world. Gentleness is therefore power
focused on the positive.
If you're a Christ-follower who's still a bit of a road warrior,
take heart. The transformation from our old self into a new creation is a work
in progress that's on God's timetable. It's a change that takes place bit by
bit and day after day along that faith journey we hear so much about. But the
problem is that the journey's pathway is narrow, twisting and full of
unexpected hairpin turns. And when we don't keep our eyes on the final
destination, we tend to end up in the ditch.
Jesus told his disciples to expect bumps and potholes in the
road. "Things that
cause people to sin are bound to come," he explained. "But woe to that person through
whom they come."
Road rage is more than a crime: it's
a sin. But the good news is that we're free from sin's power and
don't have to accept its dominance in our lives. It comes down to our ultimate
trust and dependence on Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. So when we slip up and
give in to temptation and bad habits on the highway--or just about anywhere
else for that matter--we can freely ask for help from the One who has already
paid the ultimate price for all of our mistakes: past, present and future.
With that in mind, let's take singer Carrie Underwood's advice and
let Jesus take the wheel.
"Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and
humble in heart," invites the Savior, "and you will find rest for your
souls."
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